14 signs your man is a totally insecure person

He may be Prince Charming in the beginning and could be caught in the moment while he's showering all the attention on you, but it's advisable to open your eyes and see if his intentions are good.
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It would be unfortunate to realise too late that the man you fell in-love with isn't who you thought he was but an overbearing, possessive and insecure person you need to get away from pretty fast.

Inspired by Your Tango, here are a few signs that your man is really insecure:
1. He blurts out the "Love" word right away: As much as that sounds good to hear, a man who tells you he loves you just after two outings is a huge warning sign, especially if he wants you to reply him immediately.
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2. He constantly checks your phone: Whenever you are together, he's always anxious to know who's calling you and who's not. Any hesitation to answer him will make him think you are hiding things from him.

3. He has no other hobbies or friends: His life is a straight line, and he has no other life outside work. He'd rather hang out with you every time of the day than do some other activity that does not revolve around you.
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4. He constantly threatens to leave you: When he says things like "I don't feel wanted" or "I don't think you really love me," that is a very desperate statement and he'll do anything to get constant validity from you. This guy is a manipulator and you shouldn't stay in this kind of relationship.

5. He blames his past relationships on his exes: He constantly talks about how his exes cheated on him and how he became the victim in his past relationships. It's clear that he's feeling insecure because of this, but you shouldn't let him guilt trip you if you aren't happy in this relationship.
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6. He gets pissed off that you don't spend all your time with him: The attention may be awesome at first, but when you feel like his calls, texts and unexplainable anger whenever you are away is leading towards an obsession, then find your way out.

7. He feels you are having an affair: If he constantly accuses of flirting with everyone that comes your way or cheating on him with your male colleagues because you speak to them ot you are just passing time with him till you find someone better, it's a clear sign that he's insecure because he thinks he isn't good enough for you.
To be continued...
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